As she walks through the front door she finds her fathers new girlfriends belongings. And then see what happens. We are going to discuss it further on Sunday, but to me, this is not a where is this relationship going conversation. If you are going to start dating, you need to remember that you're not replacing your spouse. Only other widows and possibly folks who were abandoned by a partnercould truly understand how this feels.
This is more likely the root of your problem.
Dating Etiquette After Spouse Dies
Be certain of your motivation. Your kids are not. Men who would be more than happy to have a relationship where both parties are happy, committed and working to a common goal. People should be judged in the present tense and not by their relationship resume, but when people are new to each other, our pasts are all we have to form opinions. We live blocks away from each other and would regularly visit 2 or 3 times a week and have for years.